Holiday Office Party Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts
Enjoy the work party and make a good impression — without regrets on Monday.
Prepare your case, pick the right moment and use this script to ask for the pay you deserve with confidence.
Asking for more money feels uncomfortable for most people. But a calm, well-prepared conversation is a normal part of working life — and many managers expect it.
Look up salary ranges for your role, experience and location using job adverts and salary comparison sites. This gives you a realistic number to aim for.
Write down what you've achieved, using numbers where you can:
Good moments include after a big success, during performance reviews, or before budgets are set for the next year. Avoid busy or stressful days for your manager.
"Thanks for meeting with me. Over the past year I've taken on [responsibility] and delivered [result]. Based on my research, the market rate for this role is around [range]. I'd like to discuss adjusting my salary to [number]."
Stay positive and professional, whatever the result. You've shown your value — and opened the door for the next conversation.
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